BY MATT MACKINDER
Clarkston News Editor

The well-documented events at Oxford High School back on November 30 were truly horrific.
In neighboring Clarkston, the school district is taking steps to provide coping mechanisms and assurances all students and staff will be safe at all Clarkston Community Schools buildings.
“As a district, we’ve spent a lot of time processing the tragedy in Oxford and doing our own soul searching, both as educators and as parents,” said CCS Superintendent Dr. Shawn Ryan. “We are all human, and not one of us is immune to the myriad of emotions that we have recently experienced. It’s difficult to show vulnerability, but I want you to know that we have cycled through fear, confusion, and sadness, among other emotions. As we all continue to move forward, we can recognize how life constantly changes. It seesaws between hardship and triumph, loss and renewal, and joy and sorrow. At the center of existence, relationships and community is what binds and unites us to a bigger whole.
“Especially in times like this, our schools, staff, and families are the thread that stitches together a community.”
Ryan said prior to the Christmas break, he had been visiting classrooms and connecting with teachers and students and experiencing an overwhelming sense of community.
“Each building has its own community, and within that, each classroom is a micro-community or family built on trust and care,” Ryan said. “Just like a family, our classrooms are comprised of many different personalities and different ways of coping. Some individuals are quick to process, while others need time. There are those who are hopeful and find ways to bring joy to the classroom, while others may still be sad and fearful. That is why coming together is the first step in our healing process.
“While we all process things differently, I believe it’s important to remember there is no script or timeline. Every adult and child will feel different emotions at different times, and that’s OK.”
As with the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, it’s imperative that society, and the schools are a key component of the Clarkston community, find their way back to a sense of normalcy.
“I’ve been listening closely to the experts with every decision I have made throughout this time,” said Ryan. “First and foremost, it is essential to get back into our routine. After that, it’s a combination of time, self-care, and reflection. We’ve encouraged our staff to find ways to tap into spiritual or other community connections and to take care of themselves physically and emotionally. This is good advice for all of us. The final piece, and maybe the most important, is to appreciate the sacred moments in our lives. That may be as simple as interacting with your children and loved ones or enjoying a favorite activity. Be sure to take stock of all the good in your life.
“While the incidents in Oxford have changed us forever, we will find our new normal over time. In the meantime, we still have supports in place if your students need them.”
If parents are in need of resources, email feedback@clarkston.k12.mi.us with any additional questions or concerns.